It was a day just like any other. I was 12 yrs. old and my life was mostly school and friends. Then they came to the door and told my mother that my brother was gone. Just like we were supposed to go on with our lives like nothing ever happened. Like he was never around or with us.Never had a girlfriend or planning to get married or have kids. It was like they thought he never mattered at all. My life was upside down. What comes next? That changed my life more than anything in my childhood.